MUSINGS OF AN EX-GIRLFRIEND

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I'll tell you one particular question that stood out for me after I dissolved my relationship several months ago.

"Why? You found someone else?"

Why it stood out?
It was the most obtuse question I had ever been asked since I started developing breasts, and its ludicrousness caught me off-guard each time, such that I never had any bright answer for everyone who asked me. I always wondered at the dullness of the mind that would so quickly jump to conclusions.

I also began to question my public reputation.
Do I really look like someone who would remain in a "situationship" because I was waiting to find another man to rescue me and give me what I truly desired? Really? 

No. That's not what I really want to ask. 

Are people aware that in this century, there are heterosexual women who love LOVE, but are not obsessed or frantic about being in any romantic relationship? 

Are people aware that "You will not find a man to marry you" is only as ominous a threat as "I will not share my biscuits with you" to some women?

More and more questions becloud my mind.
Are my people so pathetic that they would break off romantic commitments at the drop of a hat because of another suitor's flashy and enticing gestures? Is that why they project the same thing on me?

Do people know that they are allowed to have a high taste in men, reasonable expectation from their partners/prospective partners, lofty ambitions and not settle for less; and that if they are bold enough to repeat their desire tenaciously without settling for anything less, the universe will make it happen for them? 

Do people know that there are ladies who would rather be ALONE than identify with anything mediocre, like a mediocre relationship, for instance? And that a lady doesn't necessarily need a new man to show up before she wakes up and realizes that she deserves better than her current entanglement? 

No oh. My people don't know. They are too obsessed with the penis to remember that a young woman can survive without one. Pfft.

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